Anomie

Have i had feel anomie?
Mmm not that i remember like the only one that i remember when i was young it was that there was these twins at my kindergarten that they were kinda the favorites of the kindergarten and they used to be in the scolt that every monday we have a ceremony and the best grades used to be th re holding the flag and doing this ceremony, and we always as envious little 5 years old we said that they were there because of their mom that was a teacher in the school as well, but probably they really had good grads, and i was as well there, so it never really bother me, we just found it kinda suspicious

2.- Have I ever had a negative label?
Well, in my society, in my culture, we don’t really label people like theres no the groups of the geeks or the animal lovers, it's more like if you share the same humor,or the same type of recreation, but it's not that common to see those types of specific groups but normally everyone is different but they find something.
When I started my year in Canada is where I started to have this special label like i already mention, but like people in society may say that it's good or a good label, but woman are teach to be sexualised and every thing that guys tell you if you are hot or exotic you have to be grateful, when no, like you are still a human being and the way that you look or dress doesn't has to change how the society sees you  like just because I look different that the people here doesn’t mean that i act or talked in a certain way, but people decided before I did that i was already like that or they treat me on a different way, even when I first came the was kind of jerkish, and i at the beginning i thought that maybe it was a cultural thing that probably that show you approach to girls but eventually everything began to make more sense as i understood the stereotypes that people had here, when i came i already knew that people had this way to label other people
Depend of your skin color or your ethnicity and on that they based your behaviour depending on that, but the funny thing is that i never thought that , peiple would take it that literally like if it would be the truth,  ut yeah they
Really believe in those things, and its crazy, how a  whole country can think like that

And a social thing that may affect its that for example I have to become kinda aggressive or defensive towards the people because sometimes they make kind racist no racist comments and they think that its funny but it’s not,  and they think that i have to act different, i have to act that they can't tell me their jokes but at the same time i have to be quiet and peaceful because I don't wanna fall of the stereotypical mexican girl that screams and its loud and talks a lot, I have to really be careful on what i say for people knowing that i'm not ghetto that I had a good education and i come from a good family, i have.
To make sure that my tone is good, that im not that expressive, and loud.
It's not that i have troubles with it, i just learn how to cope with it, its okay, I don't really mind, but if do or act the way as back home, but here, it would ve so much different, i can be myself with few people here that i know they dont judge me, maybe just my boyfriend, he likes  my energy, and he thinks that's cool, but other than that it's not that people are gonna see it that exciting, sometimes its just too much. And i don't wanna be a headache for people.

In my culture we are not used to label people by their skin color or their heritage, its kinda we are all the same, yesah when someone is whiter than the rest we say like oh you are pretty white, but that's it, we don't really say like”im white” like if it would be a good thing or we don't say “im brown” we just don't express like that.
I think that the problem is that people here it's too much involved in the type of media that they consume, like the same type of music, the movies, the IG pages, the style that they wanna copy, tehy movies that they watch and how they are supposed to act, and how they express themselves.
It's just that they should know since a very young age that life it's not like that, and people won't react like they think they do, if they come of somewhere doesn't mean anything, doesn't mean that they have done drugs, or that their families have money because of the cartel, or they know “juan” thats so stupid, when people tells me that type of stuff i just feel sorry for them and think that they are ignorants, and they probably are gonna stay like that, living like that, inside their perfect bubble when their major problem is if justin replied their snapchat or not, or how much of vape juice do they have

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